So I want to share 5 golden techniques for keeping a guy hooked well beyond the first few dates: 1.
Show DESIRE Without Dependence To play it cool, or to not play it cool?
Any time you are able to show both of these qualities, you are making yourself incredibly valuable in a man’s eyes. Don’t Jump The Gun I’m not against whirlwind romances when they happen, but 95% of the time, it’s important to let things go at their own pace.
The worst thing you can do at this stage is artificially push things forward by assuming commitment too early, or by showing too much possessiveness, or any other type of premature “girlfriend” behaviour, like checking up on him or trying too hard to be a big part of his life.
Among all the invaluable lessons in authors Ellen Fein and Sherrie Schneider emphasize this point as the most important.
It may go against conventional dating advice, which encourages women to flirt and even strike up a conversation.
Figuring out what is going on in a guy’s mind in the first few weeks of dating would really help a woman feel more assured, knowing that she is in control of the situation.