Being an introvert can make life a little bit harder and dating tends to be one of the most difficult things to cope with for shy guys.
It’s easy to make the mistake of thinking that your inclination to blush easily, sweat profusely and stutter your sentences when talking to someone you find attractive are sure to mess with your dating life. Believe it or not, some women are attracted to shy guys because, unlike lots of men, they don’t tend to be arrogant, self-assured, or assuming. These are all signs that they are attracted to you.
When it comes to getting over your lost love, if you think the cards are stacked against you as an introvert, guess what? According to Huffington Post, over 96% of American CEOS are extraverts. It just seems that extroverts have an easier time getting back out there and dating again.
If you ensure that you give as much wholehearted attention to them as they do to you, then your relationship can be the stuff of dreams, possessing a similar kind of intensity and strength as Romeo and Juliet, Layla and Majnun, and Tristan and Isolde had.
If you neglect investing as much time and effort into your lover as they do to you, you may find that a number of things happen with your lover.
Firstly, they may become hurt, wondering why you’re not putting as much interest into them as they are to you constantly.
Secondly, they may feel jealousy, wondering what is so important about your alternative interest that you should care more about spending time with it than with them.
“In the past, an extrovert would be the life of the party and get the dates, but now, an introvert can impress someone with their excellent communication skills over email before meeting in person.” Introverts are so hot right now, don’t you agree?