But no one is worthy of trampling over someone else.
Herein lays the paradox: We can be more independent when were dependent on someone else provided its a secure attachment.
Secure attachments only occur when both partners choose to be Available, Responsive, and Engaged (A. E.) relative to the other’s feelings, needs, and happiness [Johnson, Sue, Ph.
D., , Little, Brown and Company; 1st edition (2008), pp 57-58].
And they often construct their lifestyle in such a way to avoid commitment or too much intimate contact.