I see far too many people jumping into relationships and not guarding their affections, only to become confused, disillusioned, and devastated.
You’re not just in a relationship with one person anymore, their whole social media following is involved in your relationship.
It’s hard to imagine that private lives were actually private once. Women have avid careers that actually mean something to them.
There is no more valuable friend to a dating relationship than time. Impatience is a sure sign of relational immaturity that will lead to hurt unimaginable.
Well thats simple, even though the relationship was long over, your heart feels like you're still tied up to him. Find some hobbies, talk to old friends/make new friends. You can't be happy with someone else until you're happy with yourself It sounds like you still feel connected to him for whatever reason. Maybe some soul searching and some quality time with your thoughts will give you the answers you need. After breaking up with someone you can still feel like you are with them because it might be what you want to do even if they don't want to or you know that it would be wrong.
And no matter how much time passes, you continuously keep on thinking about him and about what you had with him as a couple. He may have been controlling in a sense as well, causing you to feel guilty for moving on. When you find someone else but you are still dealing with a breakup this can lead to what you are feeling.