Being able to talk to a woman and get her to feel attracted to you right away, is a skill that is very important to your overall success with women.
You can’t rely on hoping to grow on a woman over time because you usually won’t have much time to talk to her or she will simply get taken by another guy who knows how to make her feel attracted immediately.
I guess one could say that the last couple of weeks of mine have been hectic when it comes to my dating life but it was worth it.
Unfortunately, for one reason or another, many of us men don’t always end up achieving the success we would like to when messaging women.
To understand how to better our chances, and also to get some dates, I messaged thirty women on an online dating site using the following five approaches: aggressive, passive, cheesy, inquisitive, and informal.
Let the conversation flow naturally from the initial message but keep in mind that the point of the interaction is for it to lead to a date. Demonstrate that you took the time to read her profile by mentioning an interest of hers Within the first three to four messages mention something that has to do with the details within their profile that you actually have an interest in.
In addition, doing this when it is time to ask her out on a date will absolutely help your chances. If she doesn’t respond to your first message within 48 hours then send an engaging question that she can’t help but answer Sending one follow up message is a good idea because it shows that you are seriously interested in her but do your best to not come off pushy or aggressive. Suggest a date immediately after receiving a positive response from her The most success I experienced when suggesting a date was seen immediately after receiving a positive response from her.
She will feel more naturally attracted to you and you will feel more relaxed, confident and in control. Have you ever found that when you talk to a woman that you’re not attracted to, you feel confident and are able to say whatever you want, be yourself, talk about things that you find interesting, crack some jokes and generally have a good, interesting conversation?