This is one of the most common dilemmas my patients have brought to me over the past four decades.Though there are multiple variations on the theme, there is one way in which they all are similar: two women are in a competitive triangle with the same man.Time Elapsed A new separation is clearly more undefined.
Let's give him the benefit of the doubt and say he learned from that mistake, but he's still not in the category of divorced guys we're talking about here.
So, yes, the divorced guy you should date is oldbut that's actually one of his finer qualities — it means that he's more likely a man.
If the ex isn't co-parenting and the kids are too young to be left alone, she will have to hire a babysitter or at least have advanced planning to go out.
Money might also be tight for her, so offer to pay the sitter and definitely spring for all the other date expenses.
Triangles are stable when all three legs are connected.