If you go to Google right now and type in,“What is the friend zone? Seriously, check it out below, The idea of the “friend zone” has become so popular that Google actually has to give an official definition now.
So, I guess the question on your mind at this point is, is the friend zone that we are going to talk about on this site the same as the official definition Google gave above? When most men imagine the friend zone they imagine a guy who has feelings for a girl and the girl doesn’t reciprocate but she is too nice to be mean to him so she keeps him around as a friend.
Basically, the question seems to be how exactly single Christians should relate to members of the opposite sex in that large and awkward zone between "we've never met" and a deliberate dating or courting relationship. I won't repeat the full history lesson here, as several Boundless authors have already discussed it (Joshua Rogers most recently, in his excellent piece "Your Friendgirl Deserves Better").
Essentially, the historical reality is that until 30 or 40 years ago, long, intimate friendships between men and women in which each served as the other's emotional confidante, relationship adviser and "best buddy" were far less common than they are today.
Well, what I am going to be talking about on this page is a little different.
I am going to be specifically gearing towards a situation where the guy (you) and the girl (your ex) dated in the past, broke up and now the ex girlfriend (your ex) only wants to be friends and nothing more.
Welcome to the friend zone…It’s cold, lonely and depressing. If you are in the friend zone you have hit rock bottom because the only thing worse than an ex girlfriend who doesn’t want you back is one that has put you in the friend zone. Being in the friend zone really sucks and it is going to take some serious smarts to work your way out of it. You can look at me like a decorated ex girlfriend expert. In the next 30 minutes I am going to teach you how to get out of the friend zone (if you have been placed there) and what to do to increase your chances of getting your girlfriend back.