We all have a status, positive or negative, and we can’t raise ourselves up by bringing others down. We have to take care of ourselves first before we can take care of other people. We have to grow to understand that what the person says is about them and not about you. “How do I date without fear of infecting my partner? And you likely worry a lot about infecting your partner. But it can’t stop you from seeking the love and acceptance that you deserve and that is most certainly out there.After MTV left, I hosted a little gathering, and I told the rest of my friends that I have HIV.
HIV positive guys knows what you are going through and make you feel more at ease.
Now, I am not dating only HIV positive guys -- there are a lot of people, especially more mature guys, who are more accepting and understanding and educated on the topic.
Dating is tough in general, but being HIV-positive while seeking a mate presents a whole host of unique questions and issues. Yes, there are many HIV-specific dating sites, including HIVDating Online.com, HIVPoz.net, and Positive Singles.com, which has over 15,000 members'all of whom are positive for either HIV or another condition they specify (for instance, HPV or herpes).
We answer some of your most pressing relationship questions, from dating to marriage and babies. Some sites, such as HIVNet.com, began as community sites in the '90s and grew into dating sites as more members joined; that kind of start offers a sort of friendly, self-policing (no spam! Plenty of sites specific to other parts of your identity make disclosing your status easy.
So if you are not partnered, you may still want to use a condom whether you are HIV-positive or negative.