One of the men who showed up, about my age and suffering from impotence, shared that he pretty much has given up any hope of being with a woman for the rest of his life.
His thinking was what woman would ever want to be with a man who You could see the pain of resignation on his face.
Or else they’re in relationships but feel constantly fatigued and overwhelmed.
The reason isn’t simply that “there aren’t enough emotionally available people ‘out there,’” nor is their burnout “neurotic.” Personally and professionally, I’ve discovered that something more is going on.
Why is it that Americans feel the need to almost apologize when they are looking for someone?