Seemingly nice dudes in quite esteemed careers asking to hook up in 24 hours and sending them naked pics of myself despite multiple times telling them that I didn’t want to.” As a male coach for smart, strong, successful women, I apologize on behalf of all men. But they really don’t get what it’s like to walk a mile in your shoes.
I wrote about this in Finding the One Online extensively – what it’s like to be a woman dating online and how men need to up their games to connect.
I really thought that we clicked, but I don’t want to go into the “stalker” territory and not see a “no” if it is there. DEAR WONDERING: Yes, I think you are being “ghosted.” Ghosting, for those people fortunate enough not to have experienced it, is a very sudden and unexplained withdrawal from contact, although ghosting usually refers to an actual relationship, not a possible relationship.
You should not spend time waiting for a specific date to arrive to see if this woman resurfaces.
You should re-enter the dating site and carry on, attempting to meet people.
In their first week of membership to this dating site, men send on average 15 or 20 messages and continue to send them at that rate.
By contrast, women send twice as many messages in the first week but this rate drops dramatically in the second week to well below the rate men send and stays at this much lower level.
Man poses as woman on dating site to prove his point.