(That is, which women they send a message to.)Their findings: All people, but especially guys, spend a disproportionate amount of energy searching for, browsing, and messaging our hottest users.
As I’ve noted before, a hot woman receives roughly 4× the messages an average-looking woman gets, and 25× as many as an ugly one.
A friend forwarded me an article about looks on the dating site Ok Okay, maybe it didn’t blow my mind, but it did validate everything that I’ve ever said about online dating.
I’m going to do my best to summarize– and explain what you can learn from it. 1) Men have a very fair assessment of women’s overall attractiveness.
2) Women, on the other hand, rate 80% of men as below average.
Let me repeat: It’s women, not men, who have unrealistic standards for the “average” member of the opposite sex.
It would be vain to refer to myself as a “hot girl”, but I do pride myself on the way I present myself.