You’re just seeing what he’s doing online and that information is freely available to the world.
Your motivations for checking up on this are worth looking at, though, because it gives me the feeling that either something inside you feels like you don’t quite trust this guy or that you don’t trust the relationship you’re in to have trust as a quality (and so you’re always checking and testing because you don’t have that trust to begin with…
Eric van der Woodsen (brother-in-law, via Serena) Charles "Chuck" Bass (adoptive brother-in-law, via Serena)Charlotte "Lola" Rhodes (half-sister-in-law, via Serena)Blair Waldorf (sister-in-law, via Serena) Henry Bass (nephew, via Serena) William van der Woodsen (father-in-law, via Serena) Lily van der Woodsen (mother-in-law, via Serena) "I might have been a joke, but at least people were talking about me." -New York, I Love You XOXO (6x10) Daniel "Dan" Randolph Humphrey is a main character in the Gossip Girl novels and it's television adaptation. Dan has an on-again, off-again relationship with Serena van der Woodsen and the two have the longest running relationship on the show. Dan is good friends with Nate Archibald, Blair Waldorf, and Chuck Bass.
As such, some of the comments (which I have preserved) bring up points that I have since addressed in this revision.
Right off the top, you mentioned that you and he have agreed to be exclusive.
It’s reasonable to interpret that as meaning you’ve agreed to not date anyone or sleep with anyone else, but I want to ask: when you agreed to be exclusive, how did this come about?
How clear was his side of the agreement to being committed?
Why else do you think men love playing gory video games where they play the lead character? When a man sees a woman who needs help, he instinctively feels the urge to help her.